Obituary of Delynda Oehmcke

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Delynda Beston-Oehmcke, a loving mother, passionate sister and cherished friend, who left us too soon. Delynda, affectionately known as "D" and "Pork Chop," was born on October 3, 1971, in Great Falls, Montana. She departed this life surrounded by over a dozen or her family members on April 30, 2025. She was surrounded by love and left behind an indelible legacy of kindness, compassion and unwavering strength. Childhood Delynda was the daughter of Nancy and John Beston, and she grew up in a close-knit family that instilled in her the importance of love and support. Her siblings, Kathy, Peggy, John, Wade, George, Terri, Patricia, Debbie, and Becky, will forever hold onto the beautiful memories they created together, remembering her as an outgoing, outspoken, and kind person. In reflecting on their shared childhood, Peggy said, she would often wake up with her eyes glued shut from aquanet. She said she shared a room with both Delynda and Kathy, and as many know the ‘80s are known for large, voluminous looks. To achieve such styles, a thick layer of hairspray would float in the air as the two girls got ready. According to Kathy, they used to do everything together. Delynda is a year older and Kathy said she looked up to her older sister. “We were best friends. We also liked to get in trouble which meant we spent a lot of time grounded and working in the garden together,” Kathy said. From an early age, Delynda exhibited a zest for life that was as vibrant as her personality. She loved music, and the sounds of her favorite band, Motley Crue, often filled her home. Her sister Kathy fondly recollected, "She loved to sing everywhere we went," a testament to her joyful spirit. In her youth, she thrived on creativity, whether it was through baking, painting ceramics, or writing poetry. Kathy said her sister didn’t have a favorite artist but “she loved them all but she really liked Mötley Crüe. She made me listen to them a lot.” Delynda also had a love for sports, specifically football, which grew as she aged. She was known for being a hardcore Denver Broncos fan, often rocking the orange and dark blue apparel. “Football was something that we watched during football season,” Kathy said. “We loved to go into the Charles M. Russell football games together.” Delynda graduated from Charles M. Russell high school in 1990. Adult life Delynda's creativity was matched only by her incredible warmth and compassion, qualities that blossomed during her years as a manager at McDonald's, where she spent over twenty years mentoring countless teenagers and nurturing them during their formative years. “She loved working with teenagers, she had a special talent for it,” Kathy said. Delynda held several other jobs around town including prep cook at Tracy’s Family Restaurant, manager at Taco Treat, Deli Manager at Town Pump and weekend manager at the skating rink. All of which, she brought a positive attitude and spunk to. Her desire to help others was evident in everything she did, whether that meant baking delicious treats for family gatherings or offering an encouraging word to someone in need. Christmas Eve dinner used to be at her house, Kathy fondly remembered. “She used to bake so many cookies and she would put up her Disney tree. She had so many Disney ornaments. She loved those movies.” Impact on family Delynda was deeply loved by her family, especially her daughter, Hope Oehmcke, who described her mother as "a spitfire who was always honest but loved so deeply and never judged." Hope cherished the memories of movie nights, Christmas baking, and the little rituals they shared. “When remembering my mother I want people to be happy that they were able to know her, when they tell stories of her I want others to wish they knew her,” Hope said. “I want her bright eyes and shining smile to be what they see in their minds when they talk about her.” Delynda played a pivotal role in shaping Hope's life, embodying the values of honesty and strength. “I am grateful to have had her as a mother and best friend,” Hope said. “The time was too short but she was the strongest person I have ever known, she raised me to be just as strong and I will carry that and her memory with me. I miss her everyday.” Peggy agreed that Delynda was an exceptional mother by saying: "She was a great mother and a great sister, she taught me how to be a good mother and she helped me with both of my daughters. She was a good auntie too.” In Delynda's presence, everyone felt an undeniable sense of love. As described by her sister Debbie, she possessed an “independent and strong-willed” spirit, coupled with “a great sense of humor, compassion, and love.” Loving but a little feisty Every person that talked about her for this obituary, described her as a bit feisty. “She just was always the boss,” Kathy said. “ She just said what was on her mind. She was independent. She was going to do things her own way. It didn't matter what anybody thought she was going to do it. She definitely did not care what people thought of her. She lived her life, how she wanted to live it, and she didn't take people's judgment.” She was, in the words of her mother Nancy, "a loving daughter who was known for being mean and awnry at times, but also incredibly loving." Delynda's caring and compassionate nature impacted the lives of many. Her legacy is one of kindness and generosity that continues to inspire those who had the privilege to know her. Friends and family will forever remember her feisty spirit and the boss-like presence she commanded in every setting. Peggy encapsulated this sentiment when she remarked, “She was outgoing and fun, always the life of the party.” Delynda's passing leaves a void that cannot be filled. Her family and friends will miss her radiant smile, her laughter and the warmth of her hugs. Celebration of life. The celebration of her life is scheduled for May 24 from 2-5 p.m. at Heidelberg Bar, where those whose lives she touched can gather to honor her memory and share stories of her vibrant energy. As we say goodbye to Delynda Beston-Oehmcke, we carry forward her message of love and friendship. We hope to honor her memory by being as compassionate and genuine as she was. Delynda is preceded in death by her Grandmother Kathryn, Grandfather Cecil and Nephew Dalton. She is survived by her daughter Hope Oehmcke, parents John Beston Sr. and Nancy Beston and siblings Kathy Beston, Peggy Beston, John Beston, George Beston, Wade Beston, Terri Williams, Patricia Bostwick, Debbie Johnson and Becky Devestine. Delynda will forever be remembered as “a proud mama and auntie” who loved fiercely and unconditionally. Her spirit will continue to shine in the hearts of many, and she will be dearly missed.

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